To lead an anarchistic project is a paradox--the only way to successfully do so is to act with humility, to question your actions more than you question those of others.
The NPOV is an ideal, and should be recognized such. True neutrality is impossible to achieve. Thus, we must remember that every contribution to Wikipedia is biased. Rather than giving up and deleting everything, we instead try to contextualize, and distinguish the sources of knowledge: scientific, historical, inspirational, cultural, etc.
Emphasize the connection between code and culture. Celebrate and require documentation and a mission plan.
[Be bold in editing pages]?. Propose new ideas for how to use Wikipedia, from WikiProjects? to Project Sourceberg.
For anyone who wonders if this can be done, just think for a second about how Perl has developed and grown, nurtured by Larry Wall.
Wikipedia is a noble attempt at a limited anarchistic society, and we must remain vigilant.
Politeness too is a worthy goal. But if calls for politeness come from an all-powerful cabal, which can kick you out, delete your work, etc., well, you can determine what to call that. Fortunately, that cabal doesn't exist on Wikipedia.